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It's like spoiling your children then blaming them for it. Oh, how cruel reality can be.\
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And then there was Peter, who I met that night in a bar set in the prime of a haunted mansion. Millions of shattered, jaded people smashed together, spinning around on this broken merry-go-round. I think there are three things New Yorkers are always on the lookout for: a better apartment, a better paying job, and a better significant other. And it will continue to ring like that, as apps are too easy not to do. We're not sure when it happened, but the mullet of the 70s has been creeping its way on top of the male head for the last 40 years and landed in a who refuse to stay confined to their Brooklyn lofts. The New York neighborhoods with the highest ratio of single women to single men, ages 20 to 34, are the Upper East Side 0. I might be a little bitter. She generally refuses to go on any date that is not set up a del in advance, involving a degree of forethought.

From what I could glean, the local servers, bartenders, and chefs in town just sleep with one another. Even though we disagreed on everything, I admit his passion and his quick mind really turned me on.\
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**9 Reasons Why Dating In New York City Is The Worst** - And the bassist who insisted I listen to 10 minutes of his music while he watched me react to it. I bring one, maybe two phones, into my bathroom and text in the shower for goodness sake.\
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Actively looking for love in a big city such as New York, in which you have a myriad of options, can literally be like finding a needle in a haystack or whatever clever analogy better fits New York City, like a seat on the E train during rush hour. Even though our metropolis is densely populated with dateable men and women , we have all picked up some nasty habits and have given into current circumstances that have made it difficult to date. Here are some reasons why we're all having a hard time dating: 1. Social Media Social media Facebook, Twitter, Instagram has become a necessary evil in our society and to not be connected to one, if not all, would be the equivalent of non-existence. If we meet someone new or find someone who piques our interest, the first thing we do is find him or her on Facebook or Instagram to see what he or she is all about. Quite frankly, no one should know this much about anyone without actually knowing someone. Knowing too much is a huge turn off, and I don't care for your keeping track of all the places you've partied and all the meals you've hashtagged foodporn. Cell Phones I love my phone; I practically can't live without it. Ironically, this very device designed to keep us connected has made us less social. I walk down Lexington Avenue with my ear buds in, listening to Spotify, with my hands locked in praying mantis mode, texting. We give ourselves zero to no opportunity to be social with the outside world. Didn't Mama ever tell you that you can meet the love of your life or your next potential suitor while waiting on line for coffee? You can't meet him or her with your ear buds in, either. Selfishness I am not at all saying this is a bad thing. This is the best time in our lives to be selfish. We want our freedom to live young and wild and free -- cue the music. However, the free-as-a-bird, no-ties-to-anything formula makes it very difficult to be or want to be in a functioning relationship, as it requires you to be more selfless and less selfish. Maybe we just aren't ready to relinquish some of the spotlight, and that's okay. Hook-Up Culture Dating is hard because we hook up. We don't date; we hook up, despite what Kelly Clarkson's prerogatives are. Most of us myself included hook up and believe that magically this person we have hot romps with will turn into a full-blown serious relationship. Warning: This can happen because it has happened to me but it doesn't mean that it will happen. The general consensus on this matter, in regards to men, is why would they buy the cow if they can get the milk for free and other gross analogies. The hookups will continue ain't nothing wrong with that, if it works for you. Out of convenience, hookups work for us because we are... Overworked Are we career obsessed? Do we work way too many hours? The dating-less cycle continues. Underpaid With New York City being unaffordable for us recent college grads, most of our paycheck goes to astronomical rents, depressing student loan payments and Whole Foods shopping sprees I needed that flax seed grain sprouted organic sourdough bread. The cost of dating or taking someone on a date can leave you with a deep hole in your wallet. The Wrong People We all date the wrong people, like those who are unavailable and, well, artists. Save yourself time, energy and tears, and do not date people who do not want to date you or be with you. People who have career goals and slightly more stability are better to date although, ironically, you learn this from dating the wrong people. Don't say I didn't warn you and possibly just saved you years of therapy. Photo via We Heart It.
